一次演讲后，一位设计老板留下来找我。

她说：“徐老师，我对设计概念怎么用，一直很困惑。”

我问她：“这个宇宙里，什么是不动的？”

她想了一下：“我是佛教徒。按相对论，什么都在动。但佛教说，‘心的觉知’是不动的。”

我说：“那你的‘心的觉知’，编织了一个怎样的人生？”

她沉默了。

过了一会儿，她慢慢说：“变得更平和、更同理、更活在当下，不被情绪带走……”

我说：“那份‘不动的心’照见‘万变的念头’ - 就是设计概念与设计意念的关系。一个不变，一个万变。一个生发另一个。”

她愣住了。

然后说：“徐老师，我读金刚经十几年。今天，我终于明白了什么叫‘如如不动’。”

我没教她设计。是她自己的经，解了她自己的惑。

如果你也在‘变与不变’里绕了很久 - 私信我‘不动’。我先回你一个问题。

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徐敏聪 | 商业教练｜卡点定位

帮你看清：卡住业务的那个根

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After a speech, the owner of a design firm stayed behind to talk to me.

She said, "Coach David, I've always been confused about how to actually use design concepts."

I asked her, "In this universe, what *doesn't* move?"

She thought for a moment. "I'm a Buddhist. According to the theory of relativity, everything moves. But Buddhism says that 'the awareness of the mind' doesn't move."

I said, "Then what kind of life has your 'awareness of the mind' been weaving?"

She fell silent.

After a while, she slowly said, "To become more peaceful, more empathetic, more present in the moment, and not carried away by emotions…"

I said, "That 'unmoving mind' illuminating 'ever-changing thoughts' - that is exactly the relationship between a design concept and design ideas. One is unchanging, one is ever-changing. One gives birth to the other."

She was stunned.

Then she said, "Coach David, I've been reading the Diamond Sutra for over ten years. Today, I finally understand what 'thusness' really means."

I didn't teach her design. Her own scripture solved her own confusion.

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If you've also been stuck for a long time between "change" and "stillness," message me the word "Stillness." I'll ask you one question first.

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David Tsui | Business Coach | Challenge Positioning  
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