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The brighter she smiled, the deeper she was stuck. In one hour, she found her courage again.
她笑得越灿烂，卡得越深。一小时，找回了自己的勇气。
她坐在对面，笑容满面。但那笑容，有点用力。
“工作、生活、转行、客户关系、亲密关系……”她数着，“不知道从哪开始。我只想知道，怎样才能笃定地做决定。”
那层笑，像涂上去的。
“你的笑容，在说什么？”
她顿了一下。
“……掩饰。尴尬。我平常都这样。”
“这跟你做不了决定，有关系吗？”
她沉默。然后眼泪下来了。
“我不想让人看到真实的我。自卑、没自信、胆怯……连我自己都被骗了。”
“如果我手里有一根魔法棒，把你变成一个真正有自信、有勇气的人，”我说，“你会怎么选？”
她没说话。但眼神变了。
六十分钟后，她走出去的时候，步子轻了。
“没想过，我的纠结，跟我自己的性格有关系。”
如果你也在‘不知道从哪开始’里卡了很久，与我联系。一起找到问题的根。你的时间与精力，应该花在高回报的目标上。
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徐敏聪
商业教练 ｜为赢而练
我帮创始人及CEO先赢，再长。
She sat across from me, all smiles. But the smile was a little forced.
"Work, life, career change, client relationships, intimate relationships…" she counted them off. "I don't know where to start. I just want to know how to make decisions with certainty."
That smile looked like it had been painted on.
"What is your smile saying?"
She paused. "…Covering up. Awkwardness. I'm like this all the time."
"Does that have anything to do with why you can't make decisions?"
She went silent. Then the tears came.
"I don't want people to see the real me. Insecure, lacking confidence, timid… I've even fooled myself."
"If I had a magic wand and could turn you into someone truly confident and courageous," I said, "what would you choose?"
She didn't speak. But something in her eyes shifted.
Sixty minutes later, when she walked out, her steps were lighter.
"I never thought my struggle had anything to do with my own personality."
If you've also been stuck for a long time in "I don't know where to start," reach out. Let's find the root of the problem together. Your time and energy belong on high-return goals.
(This case has been anonymized and is shared with the individual's consent)
David Tsui
Business Coach | Coached To WIN
Helping founders and CEOs WIN, then GROW
