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Choke at critical moments? I asked one question. He found his "first ball.
关键分手就软？我问了一个问题，他找到了自己的“第一球”
一个打了20年网球的老手跟我聊了两句。
他说：“每次关键分，身体就绷紧，老输。咋整？”
我没教他放松，也没讲啥技巧。
我问他：“你得分率最高的是啥时候？”
他想都没想：“开局第一球！”
我问：“打第一球的时候，你脑子里在想啥？”
他笑了：“什么都没想。空白的。”
我没说话，看着他。
他愣了一下。
过了几秒，他慢慢说：“……以后关键分，我就记住第一球那个感觉。”
我没给他任何抗压技巧。只是带他找回自己本来就有的东西。
如果你也总在关键时候掉链子 - 私信我‘第一球’。我先回你一个问题。
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徐敏聪 | 商业教练｜卡点定位
帮你看清：卡住业务的那个根
A 20-year tennis veteran said to me, "In every crucial point, my body tenses up. I keep losing. What do I do?"
I didn't teach him to relax. I didn't give him any techniques.
I asked him, "When do you have your highest winning rate?"
Without hesitation, he said, "The very first ball of the match!"
I asked, "What was going through your mind when you hit that first ball?"
He smiled. "Nothing. My mind was completely blank."
I stayed quiet and looked at him.
He paused.
A few seconds later, he said slowly, "…From now on, in critical moments, I'll just remember the feeling of that first ball."
I didn't give him any pressure-management skills. I just helped him reconnect with something he already had.
If you also always choke when it matters most - message me the words "First Ball." I'll ask you one question first.
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David Tsui | Business Coach | Challenge Positioning
Helping you see the root that holds your business back
